Raiding is ok as a whole if it is for profit and you can prove to the other alliance that it is profit, If it is for profit, it is the other persons fault because they left too much of a fleet or resources lying about.
Also, Wezer, we need to know where our allies stand if we go to war, I know that if we had attacked SYN that time that TIR would have sided with them so we need an alliance to stand by us unquestionably.